Finding a Cougar: Making a Cyber Sex Connection With A Willing Older Woman

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His Story

Written by Angel and Jake (my newest writer….love him!):

We had been talking on-line for what seemed to be ages, but in reality was on-and-off for about 6 months. Even though we both lived in the midwest with complicated lives, it was hard to think we’d ever meet in real time. We fantasized about it in our some of our sexiest chats, but our schedules never seemed to match up.

The texts got hotter and hotter

Cyber is Safer

Cyber is Safer

She was in her late 30s with a couple kids, and I was in my senior year of college. I was immediately drawn to her when I first saw her selfie. Even though she was 36, she had a body that 26 year old women would be jealous of.

Our chats were innocent at first, mostly late at night after she had put her kids to bed. Slowly, as we felt each other out, the texts got hotter and hotter. With her work responsibilities, as well as being a single mother, she had no time for dating. More importantly, she told me over and over how she wasn’t ready for a “real” relationship.

I kept reassuring her that we could be great sex buddies without falling for each other. Being a horny college student, I was happy to help her have fun and I didn’t want a relationship either.

Eventually we were exchanging messages everyday, and the desire to get my hands and my mouth on that body was at fever pitch. She had promised that if I was patient, it would happen. We always had great sex during our chats so I was ok to wait…well relatively ok.

Meet me at the half way point

When she finally messaged me to let me know her ex-husband was taking the kids for the weekend, and she had some free time, I told her to pack her suitcase and meet me at the half way point we had planned on. (Click Here: Pick Your Cougar)

We decided to meet at a restaurant around happy hour to ease a little of the pressure. What if she was disappointed in me?

The 60-minute drive to the restaurant seemed to take forever, the Friday afternoon traffic seeming to be even heavier than normal. My thoughts started running to who would get their first? How long would it take one of us to spot the other? How should I greet her? I don’t know if I have ever been more nervous in my life.  Would there be chemistry between us in real time?

A pencil skirt and a pair of high heels

With it being Friday evening, the restaurant had a bit of a wait and the line was spilling outside. While that could’ve put a damper on the evening it actually made it very easy to spot her.  Sitting by herself on a bench by the door, legs crossed at the ankle, she was gorgeous.

As soon as I spotted her, she looked up from her phone and our eyes met. I could feel my smile forming as soon as I saw hers do the same.

She slowly rose from the bench to greet me with beautiful big green eyes that weakened my knees. She stepped toward me and I moved in for a warm embrace. I could tell she had just come from her office job as she was dressed in a pencil skirt and a pair of high heels. It was a nice summer evening and the wind was blowing just hard enough to lightly rustle her short blonde bob.

There’s no hurry, baby

Despite my nervousness heading to the restaurant, she was so easy to be with that I settled down right away. Eventually we were seated at our booth, and as soon as we sat down I reached over and took her hand. I could tell she was a little nervous too and it felt good to reassure her.

I called the waiter over and ordered us a bottle of wine.

“There’s no hurry baby,” I said to her softly. “Let’s take it slow and just get to know each other.”

“Thanks,” she said taking a deep breath. I looked into her green eyes and saw a shy, vulnerable woman. Shocked, as I thought she would be smoking hot for me right away, I wanted to get to know this woman who appeared before me.

The waiter poured our wine and slowly we both relaxed as we got to know each other. Soon we were laughing and the flirty innuendos that were so natural in text began to pop into our conversation.

For Her Story click here:  I Never Intended To Be A Cougar

Click here for part 2…. The Heat Goes On

Hey Ladies, Try Dating Younger, click here: Younger is Fun

Women Are Looking For Erotic Chat Online…Are You The One They Pick?

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Photo Of Sexy Blonde Woman With Long Hair Wearing Angel's Wings.

Let me show you how to get more sex…


Hey Handsome,

Look what came across my chat window today:

WillyBangHer:  Angel, I guarantee I will make you wet.

Angel:  No thank you but I hope you won’t mind me asking, does that line work for you?

Willy:  It works about 75% of the time.  Let me ask you a question: If we are riding in my car and I placed my warm, strong hand on your soft, smooth inner thigh, will it tickle or tease you?

Angel:  If we just met, I wouldn’t be in the car. Alas, men forget that a lady is a lady, even on the internet. Would you sit down at a coffee shop with a woman you never met before and say, “I guarantee I will make you wet?” I feel for y’all. I delete 99% the requests I get. LOL Good luck to you!

Willy:  I apologize. You are right and that is NOT who I am, the other 99%.  Can we start over? Please. I was completely out of line. Obviously, you are not who I typically meet here on AM. Please.

I feel bad for Old Willy BangHer.  He is obviously means well.  He is horny and wants to have sex.  He is trolling one of the erotic chat sites online. (I googled erotic chat rooms just now and came up with 810,000 sites)  There are a lot of playgrounds out there to pick from.

There is another reason I feel bad for Old Willy.

You guys have brutal competition out there. Look how many guys are waiting for my attention:

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How can you get an advantage over the competition?

You can get yourself some good training in the art of seduction.  Now, I am not as available as I was last year….too many men at my door.  But, for a limited time I can teach you everything you need to know to get great cyber sex dates for yourself.

If women are on erotic chat sites, they are looking for action.  Why are you striking out?

Here is what to do.  First, sign up for my free tips.  I tell you exactly how to get more sex in cyberland.  Click here:  Angel’s Tips For Men

Secondly, if you are tired of no action and being deleted by the beautiful women available online, I have something just for you.

How about a Date With An Angel?

Here is how it works:  You can book private time with me to work on your text seduction skills.

If you are like old Willy BangHer from above, you can stumble around online and try to say the right thing.

Are you in?  Imagine practicing your seduction skills with me personally?  I have opened my schedule for a very few private clients. That’s right.  I am working with a few lucky gentlemen who want to master seduction and get more sex in cyberland.

I would love to meet you….


Pick Your Pleasure

Hey Guys, Here’s How To Warm Her Up For A Quickie

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I know how to make a quickie fun!

I know how to make a quickie fun!

As a woman, I can tell you that quickies are challenging.

For me, when my lover gives me the quickie signal and I know there is time for just a bit of sex, I know it won’t be enough for me. I am 100% okay with that, because he is very attentive when we have the time. (Here is what happens when we have more time—click here!)

If there are too many quickies, I owe it to myself and to him to tell him so.

I know that, but it is hard for me to speak up. I don’t want to hurt him, but I want to ask for more. What would you do if you were in my shoes? What would you say? Thanks for helping out, because I want sex to be great for both of us!

Speaking of which, I just had to share this piece of deliciousness that one of my writers sent to me. This is such a fantastic example of how quickly you can get your woman to say yes to more quickies. Here’s what to do:

If you plan ahead just a little bit (you can do it, I know you can!) you can text her something like this and she will be much more interested in getting her hands and mouth on you—quickly!

The key is to text this to her slowly. Make her wait between messages.

Hey You….

I was just day dreaming about the next time I see you….

I can see you now. Standing there, in front of me.

My hands around the back of your neck.

A small kiss hello. Followed by an admiring smile.

You open your mouth to say something, but I give you another quick kiss.

My hands slide forward, around your neck.

My thumbs follow the outline of your chin

As they start down your chest, my fingers catch on the neckline of your blouse.

I lean in and kiss you again. This time our heads stay together.

I release the hold of the first button.

My breath, hot against your cheek

The second button releases its hold.

Your hands on my arms.

The third button is undone.

The curve of your breast catches my eyes.

(Be sure to text the last couple just as you pull into the drive.)

You can thank me later.

Love, Angel


Why Men Love Dirty Talk

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Special Guest Post by Felicity Keith

Your cock is so hard....mmmm

Your cock is so hard….mmmm

It should come as no surprise that guys dig dirty talk. But have you ever considered the reasons why this form of sexual play is just so dang arousing to him? Let’s take a dive into why dirty talk drives him wild.

1. It’s an arousing surprise

If you have a ladylike public persona but behind closed doors you let explicit phrases tumble from your mouth, the contradiction gives him a sexy charge of excitement. And even if you aren’t the pinnacle of propriety, seeing you transform into a naughty vixen gives him a titillating thrill. This heightens his senses and makes everything that much more arousing for him. (See Video Here)

2. He feels like a sex-god

When you let loose with a string of moans and screams mixed with a variety of sexy play-by-plays and dirty directives, you show him just how much you F#$*king love what he’s doing to you. Your unbridled enthusiasm tells him in no uncertain terms that he’s rocking your socks.

3. Your confidence attracts him

A woman who has the self-confidence to use dirty phrases to get what she wants in bed is downright seductive. Men are drawn to women who aren’t afraid to express themselves sexually. And generally, your use of dirty talk clues him in that you are far from uptight or inhibited. A good time is in store for you both!

4. It shows you are totally in the moment

Enthusiasm is such a huge turn-on for men. A quiet partner can be misunderstood as a bored or distracted partner, and that can put a big damper on the sexy mood. When you talk dirty, not only are YOU 100% present and in the moment, it shows him that you are. That level of engagement with what’s happening between you serves to validate that he’s pleasing you.

All of the reasons above activate different chemicals in his brain and are hitting some of the big triggers for his sex drive. Who knew that there was some science behind talking dirty? Of course, not every woman feels comfortable launching into dirty talk, and if that sounds like you, you are not alone. But don’t let your fears stop you from incorporating this fun technique into your sex life. In this video I teach you ways to get over any shyness you may feel and give you dirty phrases that you can fine-tune to suit your taste level.  Watch Video Here

How To Text To Turn Her On – Use This Script*

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Keep her mind off her work and on you!

Keep her mind off her work and on you!


When you are away from your woman, even when you both are at work, why not spin her a story and text it to her—slowly—one hot juicy morsel after another?

*IMPORTANT TIP: Guys, only use this script once you have already had sex with your woman.

This is way too intimate for a first time encounter. But once you two are into play, there is something very hot about the wait between messages!

You can learn to be a master of erotic romancing and have some real fun! Good luck.

Tease her with timing!

Here is an example of just such a story written recently by a hot erotica writer I know. (Hot Tip:  Leave lots of time between each text. Make her crazy)

Hey Baby…….

Just thinking about you….

What sensitive spot of your luscious body craves some attention today?

(From Angel: I don’t know about you but if my man texted this to me in the middle of my work day, I couldn’t wait to get home and devour him.)

That spot that makes you tremble when my lips get close.

That makes you moan and giggle out loud when I tease you by getting close,

lingering by…

…and then retreating and repeating.

What spot makes you grab my head as I brush by your delicious morsel of flesh softly, slowly and accidentally?

Whose lips and tongue raise goose bumps on your inner thighs?

Who makes you pant with desire? (Click here if you love to be teased.)

Where is the epicenter of your anatomy which, when I finally envelop it with my mouth…

…sucking softly, rhythmically matching the upward thrust of your hips…

…makes your fingertips tingle, your eyelids flutter and a moan escape your lips.

What warm piece of you thrills as I suck you in my mouth, tasting you with my tongue?

Who loves it as blood rushes to your taut nipples, raises the hair in the small of your back and unleashes a torrent of honey?

That is the part of you I want to visit.

I can’t wait to get my hands on you.

(More Great Sex Tips, Check This Video)

The Good Girl’s Video Guide To Talking Dirty

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I LOVE talking Dirty!

I LOVE talking Dirty!

OK, before we get going I have to warn you . . .

Today’s post gets a LITTLE bit dirty.

But it also gets REALLY fun . . .

Here’s a question I got from Monica recently . . .

Monica asks . . .

“Here’s my problem:

Sex between me and my boyfriend has gotten kind of boring.

I love him. I think he loves me, but it seems like when we’re making love it’s just
become kind of rote and disconnected.

I just want him to pay attention to me and make love to me the way he used to and I
don’t know what to do.”

Hi, Monica,

Thanks for your question, it’s one I get a LOT.

And I’m going to give you the same answer I give every woman . . .

If you want your man to be 100% focused on you . . .

Fantasizing about you during the day . . .

Counting down the minutes until he gets to see you again . . .

You don’t have to kill yourself at the gym.

You don’t have to buy a bunch of sexy lingerie (though there’s nothing wrong with doing
that if you want.)

Nope, if you want your guy to become sexually and emotionally addicted to you,all you have
to do is learn to TALK DIRTY and make love to his mind.

I’ve said this a lot, but a man’s number one erogenous zone isn’t in his pants, it’s in
his head . . .

Guys live in a state of perpetual sexual fantasy.

And every guy dreams of meeting a woman who really understands our sexual buttons and knows how to push them in a really powerful way.

So here’s what I recommend:

Drop whatever you’re doing and watch this eye opening video by Felicity Keith . . .

Felicity looks like your normal, average early 40′s soccer mom . . .But as you’ll learn in the video (when you hear her CRAZY story) she discovered the

“secret code” to men’s erotic minds . . .

In fact, Felicity says she can teach you how to get a man sexually OBSESSED and ADDICTED to you without even touching him . . .

This is a great resource especially if you’re nervous or feel self conscious talking dirty . . . or if you feel kind of dumb because you just don’t know what to say, you really need to check out Felicity’s stuff.

Click here:  How To Talk Dirty To A Man

Naughty Texts Turn Me On…How About You?

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Meeting My Cougar in Miami

Meeting My Cougar in Miami


It’s Thursday, my flight is nearing Miami and our evening begins with you meeting me in the lounge of the Marriott. I licked my dry lips and grabbed a hit of my martini.

I had spent the last hour daydreaming about getting you aroused and excited to be with me.  I know you get turned on just thinking about our last time together and I sent a few texts to make sure you remember the details. (Check out: How To Talk Dirty)

I also know that you are at work and that you can sneak peeks at your cell but cannot answer me.  I love teasing you like this.  My heart speeds up and my gut twitches thinking about you reading my words.

I remember the last time, baby

It was hard to keep a straight face with the boss sitting across from me

You looked so fucking hot in that slinky black dress

Bare legs

Black patent leather 4 inch spike heels

I know the boss was jealous

I loved it

My fingers walk up your thigh

You reached for my hand and I knew

You were thinking….not here, not now

I looked right at you and I slide my hand up you leg,

Just under your hemline…

I am rock hard baby

Suddenly the voice of the airline attendant broke through my daydream.  We were landing and it would only be an hour til you were in my arms.  I know that you are on your way because when I turned my phone back on, here is what I read.

You are so naughty.

Pant – pant

Hurry Hurry Baby

I can’t wait to feel your fingers stroking my thighs again

Slowly so slowly reaching for the French silk panties you bought me.

I managed to flag a taxi and reopen my cell phone as fast as I can.  Marriott on the Bay, I tell the driver and then put one hand in my lap and one hand on the phone.  I am throbbing.

You are a wicked little vixen, I text back.

Haha…you love it

I am in the bar.  See you soon.

It seemed like an eternity but at last I arrive at the Marriott.  I send the luggage up to the room and head straight to the bar.  You did not see me coming so I lean in and kiss the back of your neck.  You jump and then lean back into me…relaxing…surrendering to my hands now stroking your back and shoulders.

“I can’t wait to taste you…all of you.” I whisper into your ear.

You turn around and pull me in for a kiss, paying not a bit of attention to the waiters and patrons in the bar.  It is like we are the only ones in the room.

“I missed you so much.”

“Me too baby, me too.”

I throw a twenty on the bar and pull you toward the elevator.  You squeeze my hand and stand up on tip toes to kiss the side of my neck….oh, stubble, you whisper as you open your mouth and taste me.

I am so hard by now I don’t know if we will make it to the room.  The little old couple in the elevator with us have a twinkle in their eye. Our raw passion is very apparent.  It is all I can do to keep my hands off you.

I slide my hand up your leg

On the elevator ride I finally noticed what you are wearing.  My eye wonders top to bottom… a short black backless dress, black stockings, black 3 inch peep toe pumps with bright red toe nails peeking out. Yeow.

The elevator door slid open and the older couple step out.  They were holding hands, maybe we inspired them.  As soon as the doors close we embrace as long lost lovers, we kiss sweetly then deeply, I take your hand and we move to the back  corner of the elevator car.

As we kiss, my hand finds your knee… I slide my hand up your leg, under your hemline…as my fingers climb your thighs,I can’t wait to run my finger along  the soft French silk thong I know you are wearing… I gently stroke the silk, enjoying the sheer touch and the sensation of you becoming aroused.

I slide my hand back down your beautiful body until I can lift your leg to my waist so I can more easily reach your swelling lady bits.  Without actually touching you, I know how wet you are getting anticipating my tongue.

I slide your thong aside and begin to tease and stroke you with my fingers. As I sense your excitement, I slide my hand down the soft skin of your inner thigh. I lick my dry lips wanting to taste you.  I reach across and stop the elevator between floor and gently lay you on the floor.

I move your skirt up and slowly, oh so slowly, pull your thong down so I can give you what you are aching for. I slide one, then two fingers into you… my fingers stroking and probing as I kiss and gently lick your lovely ladybits.  You are so hot, so wet, I am nearly crazed with the smells and tastes.

I love how uninhibited you are

Slowly I lick from bottom to top, swirling my tongue before I circle back and start again.  I know your lovely clitoris is calling for my attention but I purposely stay away from it spending time stroking your sweet folds and teasing you with pleasure.

I love how uninhibited you are. Laying on that elevator floor, legs wrapped around my neck, hips rising and falling as you moan and whimper.  God I love you this way.  I am in total control of your pleasure. Your legs open even more to allow me access.  My tongue darts here and there into and out of the folds and openings.

Writhing in ecstacy your orgasm accelerates and your body shivers in convulsive waves.  “Baby Baby” you cry.  “Yes, yes, yes.”  I slow my motions and you reach for my head pressing me into you.  I let you control the pressure. I want to see how long you fly.

When you finally relax, I lean into you kiss your mouth.  I pull back, pick up your thong and untangle myself from your legs.  I help you up and you smooth your dress and reach up to run your fingers through your short blonde hair. You bite your lip and look up at me.

“Damn.”  you say.  I put my finger on your lips.  “Shh.”  I whisper, I have lots of fun planned for us.  You lift your chin and cuddle into the nook between my shoulder and chin…I wrap my arms around you and push P for Penthouse.

To be continued: Stay tuned….

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Hey Guys…..Is This Hot For You?

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Hey guys. I love sex as much (maybe more) than the average Jane but you have to back way up to flip the switch and get a girl horny enough to want to be with you.

Here is what I mean. This is the actual first time note a potential sex buddy sent to me. I know he thinks this is super hot….heck, maybe you do too:

It’s Thursday, my flight has arrived earlier and our evening begins with you meeting me in the lounge of the Marriott. You arrive wearing a short black backless dress, black stockings, black 3 inch heels, garter, thong…… we embrace as long lost lovers, we kiss on the cheeks, I take your hand and we move to the back of the lounge, order our drinks, we flirt, my hand finds your knee… I slide my hand up you leg, under your hemline…as my fingers near your pussy, my fingers feel the soft French silk panties you are wearing… I gently stroke the silk, enjoying the sheer touch and the sensation of you becoming aroused, becoming wet as your juices soak through the silk… I slide your panty aside and begin to tease and stroke you with my fingers…. as I massage your pussy , I slide one, then two fingers into you… my fingers probing for your g-spot… your pussy is so hot, so wet, I lean into you kiss your lips, we lock our tongues as our waiter stares at us…

What’s the problem you may be thinking….sex partners can have completely different arousal worlds in fact some studies say that 80% of couples are sexually incompatible. Isn’t that sad? Find out how to arouse your partner. Make it a goal. Not what YOU think she likes…no, find out what she wishes you knew…..

Click Here is the Angelized Version… and see what I mean.

It is a beautiful thing to hear a woman whisper a passionate yes, yes….

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Baby, I Love How You Taste….Part 2

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By Angel and Danny G. (We love our men….leave Danny a review!)

I ran my hands down your sides feeling the silk of your blouse as it hugged your small waist pulling it gently from the waist band of your slim black skirt.

“If you keep that up, we won’t get to the bath….” you said opening your sea green eyes and looking at me with a naughty grin.

“I just want to help you get ready,” I laughed back…”I am in no hurry.”

You turned around and slipped out of your blouse and skirt revealing your white lacy bra and thong. I couldn’t help but gasp. “ You are more beautiful every time,” I manage to stutter out. “You are sweet as honey,” you reply turning away from me to slip off your lingerie. “Could you hit the light?” you ask as you light the candles around the tub.

Your body in the dim candlelight is so damn hot, I feel like I am going to lose complete control. (Learn what a man loves in bed.)

“Climb in and relax, baby, I will go get the wine.” I growled in a low voice.

I pointedly allow my eyes to wander up and down your entire body knowing that you can sense me staring at you. My gaze lingers on your breasts that are wonderfully shaped with nipples hardening in the cool air outside the tub. When my eyes return to yours you smile and proceed to stroke your breasts with the sea sponge, squeezing a stream of warm suds down the center of your chest.

Your eyes linger on my crotch and I feel myself naked under your gaze. You watch me as my manhood twitches to life and I cannot believe it but you slowly lick your lips. I feel my insides shudder a little. I reluctantly turned away to get the wine. Slow is good, I toned to myself, Slow is good.

I walked back into bathroom and you were lying back with your eyes closed a small smile perking up the dimples I loved to kiss. I walked quietly toward you and knelt at the tub. I stroked your hair away from your forehead and leaned in to kiss you.

“Hurry in,” you whispered to me as you lifted your face to meet my lips.

I slipped out of my clothes and stepped into the tub behind you. Finally my legs are around you and I am rock hard and pressing into the small of your back. I can feel your breath quicken. The water is warm and the bubbles are silky and oily making my body slide against yours.

I place my hands on the back of your neck and begin massaging gently and moving downwards, I feel you melt a little as I massage the knots from your back and you lean closer into me. God I love your body next to mine.  Your ass is rubbing a little more against me and I can feel you breathing hard and fast.

I move my hands around you and cup your magnificent breasts in my hands. I feel them and finding your nipples pinch and roll  them as they grow erect under my attention. Your legs open a little further and I feel your body slide back and press into me fully.

I leave one hand caring for your breasts and nipples and slide the other one down your tummy. I love the feel of your flesh against mine. My hand drifts ever closer to your lady bits and I feel you lift your hips to meet me. I feel myself growing harder as I find your sweetness and start to massage and press with my fingers. Small animal moans and giggles escape and I feel you convulse as the sensations rack your body. The combination of warm water and my hands has you breathing harder and I slowly bring my hands up the sides of your waist and under your breasts.

You reach your arms up over your head and wrap them around my neck. I pinch your nipples and knead them as your legs swing wide open begging for attention. Your breath catching in your throat between little cries of desire, I can’t deny you. I return one hand between your legs and quench your thirst. I explore you and stroke you as you orgasm on and on and on.

“Yes, yes, yes,” you pant as I stop my movement altogether and just rest the weight of my hand on your lower belly with my fingers wrapped down and around your mound. I press in as you raise your hips to meet me. “I love how you cum.” I say with a wink and a smile.

“You are so good.” You manage to say as you relax against me, warm water from the tub flowing around both our bodies. I wrap my arms around you and hold you close still stiff with excitement against the small of your back. (Click Here: Does your woman crave your skills?)

“You’re next baby…just let me catch my breath.”

“I am not worried,” I said giving your shoulders a good squeeze. “Let me just hold you for awhile.”

This story is by Danny G.  Isn’t he fabulous?  If you love his story telling skills, leave him a comment and tell him so!  We LOVE men who write erotica!

I Love Sexy Day Dreams – Love in the Tub

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Smoothing the fragrant oil on my skin, I shivered as goose bumps ran up my spine.  

Chilling shivers of excitement caught my breath as I thought about seeing him again.  As soon as he let me know when the tour stop was booked, I asked for that flight.

Luckily, I have seniority so it was on the books last Tuesday.  Time seemed to crawl this week.  I couldn’t keep my mind on my work.  I day dreamed about him and how great it was going to be to feel his hands and his mouth on my body again.

Knowing he has his choice of the world’s most beautiful women and wants to have sex with me makes me super confident.  He is just young enough to push my comfort zone and he knows exactly how to open me up.

The sexy texts leading up to the trip are fabulous. He is a real tease and can turn me on in way less than 140 characters.  I had to limit him…no sexting at work.  Luckily, his time zone is so far away, he catches me after 6.

Tomorrow I hop a flight to Honolulu to pick up the flight crew and then on to Bali .  As usual, he booked the whole first class sextion, I mean section and requested me as his personal flight attendant.  My friends know and they want details in exchange for covering for me.

My heart is about beating out of my chest thinking about what was ahead for me.

He loves my body.

He touches me with finger and tongue tips and teases me with tiny nips and kisses.  Cyber is mind bending and we share lots of intimate moments but there is nothing like skin.  Skin.  Skin sweeping against skin.

I will be drunk with desire.

Aching for him.

I run a jasmine scented bath and slip into the swirling water.  Sinking down til my chin hits the water I close my eyes and will myself into quiet.  It is only a few more hours.  I don’t want to flip out even though every nerve ending in my body is standing at attention.

Breathing deeply and imagining him at the other end of the bath tub, I felt the switch get flipped and waves of sensation hit me below the belt. Yes, yes, yes.  He picks up my foot, my imaginary lover, and begins to slowly massage it.

Strong and gentle hands he presses his thumbs into the sole of my foot and I whimper in response.  “I haven’t…” I stutter.  “Shhhh…” he whispers and puts my big toe into his mouth.

Short panting breaths and a small moan escapes my lips.

I laid my head back and placed my other foot between his legs, resting on him, feeling how hard he was, stroking him with my foot.  I loved hearing the sound he made when I touched him like this.  We are so good together.

Yes Please....

Yes Please….

He sucks and licks and bites my toes…one at a time he teased.  Orgasm comes and gratefully I relax into the waves of pleasure.  Just as if he was actually here, my body is flooded with joy and excitement.  Yes. Yes.  Yes.

“Yes,” he says softly, “Yes baby, go with it.” He squeezed my foot and I squealed with absolute delight.  More please.

He sat up and crawled forward covering my face with kisses.  I wrapped my thirsty arms around him and pulled him close.  We laid there in the hot steamy bath holding each other while my orgasm wound down.

Breathing deeply, I looked around and smiled to myself.  At home alone, in my bathroom with an open suitcase on the floor.  It won’t be long now.  Thank you baby.

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The ellipsis….

I always did love the ellipsis. So many sentences not ready to be finished….

Now the lovely ellipsis has found its way into my bedroom, here is how it all started….

I started researching erotica and cyber sex several months ago and it has been an eye popping experience.

A simple google chat for erotic text opened the world of sexual entertainment available for free. About 23,200,000 results in .38 seconds. It was such a search that brought me to Ashley Madison and to the four hot story tellers in my life at the moment.

Soap Operas are famous for the frequent romps in bed between characters.  Enrique Iglesias sings of one night stands and hot steamy sex in high energy dance songs.

But let’s be honest, Soap Operas, movies and popular books like the Twilight series as well as Fifty Shades of grey have only accomplished one thing.

Thousands of sexually hungry, wishfully thinking and ultimately unsatisfied women. Married or single, be honest…do you have regular orgasmic and thrilling sex?

You are out there reading, watching and singing along to all of the passive sexual entertainment that you can. Being a modern woman, you have a variety of sex toys that do their best to find the big O.

But truth? How long has it been since you have had a screaming orgasm?

I lived with a man with no sex drive…for nearly 10 years. I kept the pipes lubricated with erotica and toys but I didn’t know what I was missing.

Being in a private chat room with a man whose sole intention is to create a fantasy just for me has taken my orgasms into a whole new dimension. I feel so safe when I am alone.   I have discovered that when I am by myself, my body finally relaxes deeply enough for orgasm to have its way with me and does it ever. (Click here to see a real orgasm-this is not porn)

So how does the ellipsis come in to play?

In the chat room while your story teller is typing, all you see is a small picture and the ellipsis.

I watch that ellipsis with heart beating fast and bated breath waiting for the next ellipsis to disappear into text. It is mad fun to be teased with that blasted ellipsis.

Right now I have a story teller from Australia who tells a wicked tale. He is smart and a smart ass and he makes me laugh and shiver while he spins erotic fantasies just for me.  (Click here to see:  Cyber Sex Sample)

The mind is a very naughty place when inspired and the sex I am having at sixty something is the best of my life. As my Australian friend says, cyber sex is the safest sex. Safe from STDs of course, but more important for me, safe from the complication of a relationship.

Me? I am just divorced. 73 days today. The last thing I want is to be in a couple. How about you? Why aren’t you getting enough pleasure when it comes to sex?

Answer me this…do you need a man to have great sex? Could Solo Sex Orgasms with erotic text partners fill in until you are really ready to make it permanent with a real time guy?

What do you think?

I demand a recount!

I demand a recount!

Naughty, Nice and Not in Kansas Anymore

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Rear view of woman walking towards pilot and stewardesses agains

The text alert chimed in my purse.

“Pack your bags”

I hadn’t heard from him for 23 days….but who’s counting.

His job has him on the road most of the time and I’m running a company of my own so our arrangement works out just right for both of us.

“What are you thinking, I can’t just pick up and go.” I texted back.

He is my guilty pleasure and I drop everything when he is in town. He is the most skilled lover I have had and I can’t wait to be nibbled, fondled and cuddled right into heaven. And while a part of me HATES not having him available to me, another part is super turned on by the long time between hot sexy dates. But pack my bags?

“I have to be in Paris on Tuesday and I want you with me.”

My mind snapped into hyperdrive…how can I make this happen. My assistant Darcy has been cheering me on for months. I never thought that I would be happy in a NSA (No Strings Attached) purely sexual relationship. But I am and I love it.

“You naughty man…how you tempt me….” I typed quickly.

I switched screens on my iPad and pulled up my calendar.

“Oh….I plan on lots of naughtiness…..”

A shiver ran up my back and I felt myself melt between my legs. I couldn’t wait to be with him for more than a day at a time. Would we get tired of sex? I don’t think so. We make out for hours at a time. I cum just thinking about him.

“When?” I fire back.


“Like in tomorrow Tuesday?”

“Yep. I said, pack your bags…”

“Holy shit….I’m in.”I text quickly and then fly off the couch, grab my laptop and start canceling meetings and rearranging my schedule.

A rush of passion surges through me as I accept the risk I am taking.

My heart pounds thinking about being with him, tasting him, kissing him, touching him, taking him in every way.

It’s just sex and that will never work, the experts say. Nothing of value can be built from a no strings attached sexual relationship, the wise ones of the world preach in loveless marriages and sexless lives.

I am having sex. I am having the best sex of my life and if my sex buddy wants to take me to France to play out the fantasy, I am all in.

My heart is in my throat as I pack a few things in a small bag. I always travel light and I don’t think I will be wearing a lot of clothes.

Skinny jeans and a couple of tees, gold strappy sandals and a pair of white sneakers and a super sheer and beautiful summer sundress that falls off one shoulder. My bikini, the exotic massage oil he had brought from Thailand and my passport.

I called a cab and was on my way.  All I could think about was him and every time I did, my lower belly tightened up and warm moistness gathered below. I kept imagining him holding me, stroking me, kissing and nibbling on my shoulder, my neck and I can’t wait.

I can’t help but wonder if he gets hard thinking of me the way I get wet thinking of him. I am trembling thinking of the naughtiness that awaits…..

PS We had to take different flights so we couldn’t be together til we got to Paris.  We had some great chat sex though…check it out:  Rendevous: Sexting at 40,000 ft



3 Quick Cyber Sex Tips For Men

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Guys, you are going to have to give us girls a break here.

If you have been the kind of fabulous partner that I know you are and your woman has just shivered in for a landing, the last thing she wants to hear is a request.

A request for her to do anything. After climax, my body has echoes…like velvet aftershocks that can make the orgasm last for a long time.

In real life, women fall asleep in the arms of their lovers especially if you have done a great job of satisfying her. But, if she is still conscious enough to get her cyber self on with yours, here are some texting tips on how to help her pleasure you with perfection.

Trust me, her willing participation will turn up the heat for you.

You just want to make it real easy for her.

1.  Ask her things that she only needs to say yes or no to.

I am telling you that after my man has finished ravishing my willing self, I am done in.  Sometimes even squeaking out a yes or a no is a real challenge.

2. Describe what you are doing to pleasure yourself and ask her if it is ok if you go on.

Like this, “Baby, Is it ok if I slip my hand into my shorts?”  Now that makes me shiver just thinking about it…then I can text back one letter…. k.

3. Repeat step 2.

With each “k” you will know she is there with you, keeping you company while you ride the wave of your own solo sex.

Of course you have to be good at one handed typing with this one…. If you don’t have a great time playing with your happy woman this way, let me know.

I think she will be all over you….in cyberland, of course.

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Uh, you can thank me later….

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This is exactly what has been happening to me.  I am alone, except for my cyber sex buddy du jour, but I know what she is feeling.   I love watching as the woman in pink “moves” the energy along.

In my fantasies, my imagination moves the energy through me and I cum from head to toe.  Longest one so far is almost an hour.  This is definitely NOT the kind of sex my mom explained to me in “The Talk” years ago.

Gentlemen, your cyber story telling bring this to the ladies you entertain, if you know what she likes and you can read her pace….this is the pure pleasure your texting brings her.

Hooray for solo sex and hooray for fabulous men who play along!

Sex Buddy Report Card

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So….is it possible?

Can you have a purely sexual relationship and not long for more?  In the search for ultimate pleasure, do conventional relationship rules apply?  Here’s what is going on with me.

Portrait Elegant Young WomanI am having the best sex of my life.  A 36 year old cyber buddy asked me if it is true that women in their 60s have a higher sex drive than women decades younger.  As I told him, I can only speak for myself but yes, I am having the best sex of my life.  So all in all, I would have to give my sexual satisfaction an A+.

Since adding cyber sex to the mix, I have orgasms that last for forty five minutes.  I never expected this.   My ex had no sexual appetite and I had adjusted myself accordingly.  I am a one man woman…a serial monogamist and cheating never crossed my mind.  I had solo sex all the way along with erotica and a great vibrator.

Little did I know how much my life would change once reawakened and sexually active again.

After I left my husband, very young men began to appear on the scene.  Once I got a taste of what it is like to have a man turned on by the thought of me, my self confidence went through the roof.

Now I get why Madonna, Cher, Jennifer Lopez and now Heidi Klum love younger guys so much.  It is like a fountain of youth.  I feel younger than ever and life is changing.

I began writing again after a long hiatus.  I found myself a great new job.  I am leaving my current job with my head held high and a great relationship with my boss.

I think that the fountain of inner energy that is available because of my sex life is more tangible to me because I went without it for such a long time.

So that is why I give my sex life an amazing A+.  Do you hear a but coming?  Well, there is one.  I have a sex buddy who knows how to touch me and coax deep soul satisfying orgasm out of me.  Yummy.

The problem is, he travels.  I only see him about every other month.


If I moon over him and obsess about the when, where and how of our next encounter, it sucks.  All I can think of is how much I want to be with him again.  To feel his mouth on me.  Nipping, licking and kissing me… making me quake inside.  Of course I long to feel him touching and stroking me.  Duh.

That’s where cyber sex comes in.  I have two or three men that spend time with me and are eager to please.  The attraction is mutual and I enjoy learning what it takes to bring them the satisfaction they are bringing me.

What is happening for me is deep and crazy good orgasm without emotional attachment.  My body is now responsive to the quietest of touch and can be sent into waves of pleasure that last 30 to 45 minutes.  I am not kidding.

Here is what I think is going on.

It is hard for me to let my guard down when I am with a man.

But when I am alone, my body can fully relax and when that happens, orgasm happens all by itself.  Cyber buddies who text along…narrating the blow by blow, so to speak bring peak experiences again and again.

I am going to start seeing other men in the real world too.  Yes, I am a serial monogamist or so I thought.  Now, I am going to say yes when asked out and see what unfolds.

The beauty of solo sex with a cyber buddy is that it builds a sustained sexual energy which makes me more self confident and sure of myself when I am with real time men.

Because I am not sexually starving, I am much better at keeping my head screwed on straight when chemistry strikes.

Ultimately, all sex is solo sex.  Full and ecstatic orgasms are essentially self centered.  All awareness falls away as the body vibrates to a deep inner rhythm that pulsates pleasure upon pleasure.

Even with the love of your life, if you get to that peak place of pleasure, it doesn’t matter if he is there or not.  Having a fantasy partner will never be as hot as skin on skin, mouth on delicious mouth sex play.

But, a talented text partner, the right vibrator and a safe place to play make for a great evenings entertainment.  Solo sex is the safest sex out there and technology brings unlimited possibilities right to your phone or laptop.  What are you waiting for?


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Yes, please

Yes, yes, yes….more of this please.

Dear Fantasy Lover,


Last time you took me to a place I had never been before.

Just thinking about you and chills run up my back and into the nape of my neck making my hair tingle. I don’t know how and why but I love what you do with my body.

You told me you would. You told me I wouldn’t regret it.

I don’t know how you knew but you were right. All I know is that I love the feeling of your hands on me. I crave it. I can’t wait til next time. I love how you nibble on me, not quite painful nips that send shock waves through me.

When I start to breathe hard and fast I know you know and you always slow down and lighten your touch at just the moment I need and want more. That tease blows me away. I love how gentle you are… sometimes I cum when you are just holding me.

I have never been with someone who puts me, my body and my pure pleasure first. Where did you come from, you rascal you, teasing and pleasing me and touching me with pleasure. I wish I could explain to you how good it feels when you do certain things.

I love when you kiss my shoulders and up into the nape of my neck. I tremble when you run your hands through my hair and grip it at the most delicious moments. I know you know I am happy when I arch my back and move toward you.

Exquisitely wicked, you always kiss everywhere but where I want you and my body always finds the magic when you finally do. I love how you sense my natural wanting as I slowly but willingly open my legs and relax.

Wasn’t it cool that time we were in the tub together, me lying up against your back and your arm around me, across my chest. I love that I am so comfortable with you that I could lay back on you and cum and cum just laying in your arms.

I hope it isn’t too long before we can be together again.

With a Shiver….

PS. I love how you taste right before you cum.

Dear Fantasy Lover….

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Yes please.

Yes please.

I still tremble at the thought of the orgasms from last time.  Like echoes, tender aftershocks of pleasure are right here…now.

I want to be kissed like that again. I want you to nibble on my lips and explore me with your tongue. As a matter of fact, I want you to explore more of me with your tongue. I want to feel kissed up and down my spine.

I want to feel your tongue on the bottom of my foot. I want to feel my toe in your mouth and I promise I will cum when you suck and nibble on me.

I want to tease and please you. I want you naked. I want to taste you in every way. I love exploring your body with my tongue. I love your stubble. I love when you tremble and moan under my spell.

I want to feel your strong arms around me and your hands on my skin. I want to lay down next to you and feel your body wind itself around me. I want your legs around me. I want to press my body against yours and lose myself in how good it feels.

I know how fucking fun it will be next time we are together. We have no obligation to each other, no promises, no broken promises.

I am having the best sex of my life and most of it is without you. I have fantastic cyber sex texting with men and pretending they are you. I think of being with you while in the tub and you are there, looking into my eyes, massaging my foot resting between your legs.

Even writing about it makes my body respond as if you are here touching me right now and that is super exciting.

The more I get, the more I want. I can’t wait til next time. I tremble at the thought of our next fantasy date.

Shivering in anticipation,

Hey Guys…5 Cyber Sex Tips To Make Your Lady Sizzle

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Do you know which words will tingle your lady inside out with delight? If the ladies you text with run from you even though you think you are being hot and sexy, read on:Inside your text partner is a sex kitten ready to play...

Here is the first message I got from someone on an erotic text site recently:

You stare out over the balcony viewing the ocean as the sound of waves crashing on the shore fill the silence in the hotel room. Your lover approaches you from behind and unties the bow wrapped around your neck as you gown drops effortlessly to the floor revealing your nakedness. You turn around facing your lover and grab his erect penis and lead him to the bed.

It starts out good but who is this about anyway? Guys, if you want to heat things up with a woman, playful texting is the perfect vehicle. It is foreplay at its best, especially when you know the right words.

Here’s the thing, would you seriously unzip and show off on the first date? I don’t know about all women, but this woman is totally turned off by this attempt at text seduction.

There are literally thousands of lonely and sexually interested women searching for good text sex out there. If you aren’t connecting to willing sext buddies, here’s how to start:

Here are five quick tips that will heat up your texts and get you a sext buddy of your own.

1. Follow her lead when it comes to timing. If she texts you right back, do your best to do the same. If she waits…you wait.  Get clear on her expectations when it comes to how often you like to text.  If she wants you to text more often…let her know how often you text and tell her that fewer is hotter.

2. Let her know that you are all about her pleasure. Be direct about it and tell her that you intend to find out what she likes and do a lot of it.  Most women have never had a man put them first.  Your sex buddy will open up as you show her that you care how good she feels.

3. Tease to please. Ask her where she likes to be touched when with a man for the first time. Then use that information to tease her.  Ask her if there are any words that turn her off and then promise never to use them.

4. Ask her questions along the way. Give her the opportunity to say yes to you. Give her the chance to anticipate what is coming later. Try, “When I get home would you mind if I…..?” You can make her melt with the right words.

5. Flirt with her and be fun. Playful is way sexier than porn. If you want to turn a woman on and have her hot for you, come play in her world and be a little naughty.

Once you have playful word play with a woman for a while, you will know if you have chemistry or not. You don’t need to be perfect and these tricks will not work for all women.

But if you want to have great cyber sex, I can promise you that once you take the time to build a playful rapport with your sext buddy, it will be well worth it.

Heck, she might even grasp your tight and throbbing wand and lead you right to heaven.

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