As a woman, I can tell you that quickies are challenging.
For me, when my lover gives me the quickie signal and I know there is time for just a bit of sex, I know it won’t be enough for me. I am 100% okay with that, because he is very attentive when we have the time. (Here is what happens when we have more time—click here!)
If there are too many quickies, I owe it to myself and to him to tell him so.
I know that, but it is hard for me to speak up. I don’t want to hurt him, but I want to ask for more. What would you do if you were in my shoes? What would you say? Thanks for helping out, because I want sex to be great for both of us!
Speaking of which, I just had to share this piece of deliciousness that one of my writers sent to me. This is such a fantastic example of how quickly you can get your woman to say yes to more quickies. Here’s what to do:
If you plan ahead just a little bit (you can do it, I know you can!) you can text her something like this and she will be much more interested in getting her hands and mouth on you—quickly!
The key is to text this to her slowly. Make her wait between messages.
I was just day dreaming about the next time I see you….
I can see you now. Standing there, in front of me.
My hands around the back of your neck.
A small kiss hello. Followed by an admiring smile.
You open your mouth to say something, but I give you another quick kiss.
My hands slide forward, around your neck.
My thumbs follow the outline of your chin
As they start down your chest, my fingers catch on the neckline of your blouse.
I lean in and kiss you again. This time our heads stay together.
I release the hold of the first button.
My breath, hot against your cheek
The second button releases its hold.
Your hands on my arms.
The third button is undone.
The curve of your breast catches my eyes.
(Be sure to text the last couple just as you pull into the drive.)
You can thank me later.