VIDEO: Watch an orgasm with no physical touch….Hot! Hot! Hot!

This is exactly what has been happening to me.  I am alone, except for my cyber sex buddy du jour, but I know what she is feeling.   I love watching as the woman in pink “moves” the energy along.

In my fantasies, my imagination moves the energy through me and I cum from head to toe.  Longest one so far is almost an hour.  This is definitely NOT the kind of sex my mom explained to me in “The Talk” years ago.

Gentlemen, your cyber story telling bring this to the ladies you entertain, if you know what she likes and you can read her pace….this is the pure pleasure your texting brings her.

Hooray for solo sex and hooray for fabulous men who play along!

Sex Buddy Report Card

So….is it possible?

Can you have a purely sexual relationship and not long for more?  In the search for ultimate pleasure, do conventional relationship rules apply?  Here’s what is going on with me.

Portrait Elegant Young WomanI am having the best sex of my life.  A 36 year old cyber buddy asked me if it is true that women in their 60s have a higher sex drive than women decades younger.  As I told him, I can only speak for myself but yes, I am having the best sex of my life.  So all in all, I would have to give my sexual satisfaction an A+.

Since adding cyber sex to the mix, I have orgasms that last for forty five minutes.  I never expected this.   My ex had no sexual appetite and I had adjusted myself accordingly.  I am a one man woman…a serial monogamist and cheating never crossed my mind.  I had solo sex all the way along with erotica and a great vibrator.

Little did I know how much my life would change once reawakened and sexually active again.

After I left my husband, very young men began to appear on the scene.  Once I got a taste of what it is like to have a man turned on by the thought of me, my self confidence went through the roof.

Now I get why Madonna, Cher, Jennifer Lopez and now Heidi Klum love younger guys so much.  It is like a fountain of youth.  I feel younger than ever and life is changing.

I began writing again after a long hiatus.  I found myself a great new job.  I am leaving my current job with my head held high and a great relationship with my boss.

I think that the fountain of inner energy that is available because of my sex life is more tangible to me because I went without it for such a long time.

So that is why I give my sex life an amazing A+.  Do you hear a but coming?  Well, there is one.  I have a sex buddy who knows how to touch me and coax deep soul satisfying orgasm out of me.  Yummy.

The problem is, he travels.  I only see him about every other month.


If I moon over him and obsess about the when, where and how of our next encounter, it sucks.  All I can think of is how much I want to be with him again.  To feel his mouth on me.  Nipping, licking and kissing me… making me quake inside.  Of course I long to feel him touching and stroking me.  Duh.

That’s where cyber sex comes in.  I have two or three men that spend time with me and are eager to please.  The attraction is mutual and I enjoy learning what it takes to bring them the satisfaction they are bringing me.

What is happening for me is deep and crazy good orgasm without emotional attachment.  My body is now responsive to the quietest of touch and can be sent into waves of pleasure that last 30 to 45 minutes.  I am not kidding.

Here is what I think is going on.

It is hard for me to let my guard down when I am with a man.

But when I am alone, my body can fully relax and when that happens, orgasm happens all by itself.  Cyber buddies who text along…narrating the blow by blow, so to speak bring peak experiences again and again.

I am going to start seeing other men in the real world too.  Yes, I am a serial monogamist or so I thought.  Now, I am going to say yes when asked out and see what unfolds.

The beauty of solo sex with a cyber buddy is that it builds a sustained sexual energy which makes me more self confident and sure of myself when I am with real time men.

Because I am not sexually starving, I am much better at keeping my head screwed on straight when chemistry strikes.

Ultimately, all sex is solo sex.  Full and ecstatic orgasms are essentially self centered.  All awareness falls away as the body vibrates to a deep inner rhythm that pulsates pleasure upon pleasure.

Even with the love of your life, if you get to that peak place of pleasure, it doesn’t matter if he is there or not.  Having a fantasy partner will never be as hot as skin on skin, mouth on delicious mouth sex play.

But, a talented text partner, the right vibrator and a safe place to play make for a great evenings entertainment.  Solo sex is the safest sex out there and technology brings unlimited possibilities right to your phone or laptop.  What are you waiting for?

I love that you get hard when you think of me, however….

Make me say yes....

Make me say yes….


Dear Fantasy Lover,


I like you. You’re fun.

You write in a smart ass sexy style that I find uber appealing. I look forward to your messages, they make me tingle and the hair on the back of my neck stand up.  My heart beat goes up when the mail box flashes with a new message from you.

That being said, there’s something you need to know.

I know you want me to have your cock. In my hands, in my mouth, between my breasts and other creative places in the geography that is us.

I appreciate that and believe me, there is nothing I appreciate more than a beautiful cock.

Did you hear a but coming? (Ok, get your mind out of the gutter, I spelled it with one t. Haha) Even though the texting is hot and even though there is cosmic and deliciously anonymous chemistry going on between us, you must never, ever put your cock anywhere near your cyber partner’s body without her ok.

On line just like in real life, your hands and mouth drive me wild and it is easy and comfortable to imagine you and I making out and enjoying each other as strangers.  I really need to know a man before I want to entertain him with my talents.

Women like me who have had a bit of a painful past when it comes to sex partners need a little coaching and patience to let go and let pleasure have its way.  It takes a special man to slow down to his lady’s pace, but worth it.

You wake up something fabulous in me and I am super turned on by what you say and how you say it.

I love how you write and I can’t wait for more. I have but one condition, let me pick the time and story line the next time your cockalicious self comes out to play.  Tease me and taste me and I promise you, we’ll rock it.

Shiver, shiver,


PS  Also, I never ever ride a cock that I haven’t tasted first….


Yes, please

Yes, yes, yes….more of this please.

Dear Fantasy Lover,


Last time you took me to a place I had never been before.

Just thinking about you and chills run up my back and into the nape of my neck making my hair tingle. I don’t know how and why but I love what you do with my body.

You told me you would. You told me I wouldn’t regret it.

I don’t know how you knew but you were right. All I know is that I love the feeling of your hands on me. I crave it. I can’t wait til next time. I love how you nibble on me, not quite painful nips that send shock waves through me.

When I start to breathe hard and fast I know you know and you always slow down and lighten your touch at just the moment I need and want more. That tease blows me away. I love how gentle you are… sometimes I cum when you are just holding me.

I have never been with someone who puts me, my body and my pure pleasure first. Where did you come from, you rascal you, teasing and pleasing me and touching me with pleasure. I wish I could explain to you how good it feels when you do certain things.

I love when you kiss my shoulders and up into the nape of my neck. I tremble when you run your hands through my hair and grip it at the most delicious moments. I know you know I am happy when I arch my back and move toward you.

Exquisitely wicked, you always kiss everywhere but where I want you and my body always finds the magic when you finally do. I love how you sense my natural wanting as I slowly but willingly open my legs and relax.

Wasn’t it cool that time we were in the tub together, me lying up against your back and your arm around me, across my chest. I love that I am so comfortable with you that I could lay back on you and cum and cum just laying in your arms.

I hope it isn’t too long before we can be together again.

With a Shiver….

PS. I love how you taste right before you cum.

Dear Fantasy Lover….

Yes please.

Yes please.

I still tremble at the thought of the orgasms from last time.  Like echoes, tender aftershocks of pleasure are right here…now.

I want to be kissed like that again. I want you to nibble on my lips and explore me with your tongue. As a matter of fact, I want you to explore more of me with your tongue. I want to feel kissed up and down my spine.

I want to feel your tongue on the bottom of my foot. I want to feel my toe in your mouth and I promise I will cum when you suck and nibble on me.

I want to tease and please you. I want you naked. I want to taste you in every way. I love exploring your body with my tongue. I love your stubble. I love when you tremble and moan under my spell.

I want to feel your strong arms around me and your hands on my skin. I want to lay down next to you and feel your body wind itself around me. I want your legs around me. I want to press my body against yours and lose myself in how good it feels.

I know how fucking fun it will be next time we are together. We have no obligation to each other, no promises, no broken promises.

I am having the best sex of my life and most of it is without you. I have fantastic cyber sex texting with men and pretending they are you. I think of being with you while in the tub and you are there, looking into my eyes, massaging my foot resting between your legs.

Even writing about it makes my body respond as if you are here touching me right now and that is super exciting.

The more I get, the more I want. I can’t wait til next time. I tremble at the thought of our next fantasy date.

Shivering in anticipation,

Wanna go somewhere and makeout?

Hugging me tightly and nuzzling the back of my neck, I found it hard to catch my breath.

Yes please, I whispered.

Laughing, he grabbed my hand and pulled me toward the car. Wanna drive I said, sure he said. I love how he slides his hand along my thigh and not having to concentrate on my driving. Where are we going? I asked. I know a park near by where we can park. He grinned.

Trembling with Anticipation

Trembling with Anticipation

Something inside me is doing cartwheels. When I was 17 and parked to makeout, I was so terrified my dad would find out and shoot the poor boy before beating me black and blue with his belt, I could barely get my mouth open.

I was woefully inexperienced when I married the first time and had no idea that orgasm was such a multi-faceted experience. Now, when this much younger man touches me a certain way, my body rides waves of sexual pleasure all of it orgasmic.  Each time more exciting than the last.

He genuinely enjoys my pleasure and inexplicably, I am at ease and uninhibited when I am with him.

What I love is that he is able to bring all of this bliss to me while fully clothed in the back seat of a late model mustang convertible.

Kissing is delicious and playful. Exploring each other, nipping at lips and kissing eyelids. Hands running up and down my body, occasionally a finger winds its way around my body barely inside the waistband of my jeans.

He holds me tight while one hand goes up my back underneath my sweater. His hand on my skin is breathtaking. I love being so turned on. It has been such a long time since anyone has touched me like this and I am loving it.

Sighing with delight I arch my back and lift my arms and chin. He swoops in and kisses my throat circling back to my ear. Sucking my earlobe into his warm mouth I can’t help but squeal with delight. A cute quiet little squeal, but a squeal just the same.

My legs open easily as he moves his hand higher up my leg and teases with ever lighter touches. Reading my mind he begins to stroke between my legs with just the right pressure. With absolutely no resistance I allow myself to stay right with the pleasure with abandon.

He cheers me on, tells me how beautiful I am when I respond to him like that. He is very good and his touch sends me into orgasm after orgasm. All this with my clothes on. In the car. This is pure pleasure. Two consenting cuddlers, right?

Hey Guys…5 Tips To Make Your Lady Sizzle

Do you know which words will tingle your lady inside out with delight? If the ladies you text with run from you even though you think you are being hot and sexy, read on:Inside your text partner is a sex kitten ready to play...

Here is the first message I got from someone on an erotic text site recently:

You stare out over the balcony viewing the ocean as the sound of waves crashing on the shore fill the silence in the hotel room. Your lover approaches you from behind and unties the bow wrapped around your neck as you gown drops effortlessly to the floor revealing your nakedness. You turn around facing your lover and grab his erect penis and lead him to the bed.

It starts out good but who is this about anyway? Guys, if you want to heat things up with a woman, playful texting is the perfect vehicle. It is foreplay at its best, especially when you know the right words.

Here’s the thing, would you seriously unzip and show off on the first date? I don’t know about all women, but this woman is totally turned off by this attempt at text seduction.

There are literally thousands of lonely and sexually interested women searching for good text sex out there. If you aren’t connecting to willing sext buddies, here’s how to start:

Here are five quick tips that will heat up your texts and get you a sext buddy of your own.

1. Follow her lead when it comes to timing. If she texts you right back, do your best to do the same. If she waits…you wait.  Get clear on her expectations when it comes to how often you like to text.  If she wants you to text more often…let her know how often you text and tell her that fewer is hotter.

2. Let her know that you are all about her pleasure. Be direct about it and tell her that you intend to find out what she likes and do a lot of it.  Most women have never had a man put them first.  Your sex buddy will open up as you show her that you care how good she feels.

3. Tease to please. Ask her where she likes to be touched when with a man for the first time. Then use that information to tease her.  Ask her if there are any words that turn her off and then promise never to use them.

4. Ask her questions along the way. Give her the opportunity to say yes to you. Give her the chance to anticipate what is coming later. Try, “When I get home would you mind if I…..?” You can make her melt with the right words.

5. Flirt with her and be fun. Playful is way sexier than porn. If you want to turn a woman on and have her hot for you, come play in her world and be a little naughty.

Once you have playful word play with a woman for a while, you will know if you have chemistry or not. You don’t need to be perfect and these tricks will not work for all women.

But if you want to have great cyber sex, I can promise you that once you take the time to build a playful rapport with your sext buddy, it will be well worth it.

Heck, she might even grasp your tight and throbbing wand and lead you right to heaven.